Connecting each week with your partner.
It is so important to have rituals to stay connected with your partner. It does not matter how busy you “choose’ to be. If your relationship is important to you, spend time with each other and make it happen. Don’t just rely on physical sex each week to stay “connected” or the odd chat between doing other things like work and children.
When you part, make sure you say goodbye, when you return make sure you hug and kiss. Have a “date night” each week which can be at home with just the 2 of you. Ideally have a scheduled meeting each week about your relationship (This is not the date night). This is time to consciously affirm each other and to bring up any concerns about the relationship. (This is not the time to bring up issues about the children as this could be a diversion or avoidance of any relationship concerns)
Information provided by Robert J Grimes Ph: 0449 557399 LoveLifeMatters.com.au