Have You Lost Yourself In Your Relationship Is your relationship joyful? If not, what do you need to change to make it different? Many women who are competent and switched-on, are still waking up to realise they have lost themselves in their relationship yet again....
Are you being defensive without realizing it, in your relationship? We just want to give a little explanation. Defensiveness will come up a lot quicker with people that we're very close to. It can be at work, with your children, or with family, friends even...
How To Get Your Partner To Listen To You The Surprising way to Heal Emotional Disconnection in a Marriage Do you have the same re-occurring argument in your relationship? Do you try to get your point across, but you feel your partner is not listening, because...
The Key To Heal Emotional Triggers In Your Relationship Feeling is Healing. Emotional pain does not kill you, but suppressing it can. Many people who come for marriage counselling, feel if they disclose their emotions it is a sign of weakness. “Stop crying.” “Don’t...
When you meet a potential partner, and you decide to marry them, it is only natural to dream of how good it can be with this person. You have hopes and desires of what you want, and you may believe in the happily ever after romantic love story, then to your dismay,...
Self-esteem is how you feel and think about yourself. To understand exactly what self-esteem means, in this article we will look at the contrast of ‘low’ and ‘healthy’ self-esteem. Low self-esteem is characterised by: Being very critical of self Believe they don’t...
Why Do Relationship Hurts Arise? When you decide to make a commitment in a relationship, you can go through both fear and excitement. The fear probably is about, “have I made the right decision?” and “am I going to be able to have my own time and be myself?”. To have...
Why relationships are a paradox of hurting so much and loving so much. When you decide to make a commitment in a relationship, you can go through both fear and excitement. The fear probably is about, “have I made the right decision” and “am I going to be able to have...
How to stay in love and keep that loving feeling alive in your relationship A relationship could be likened to a garden. A garden that is left unattended will grow weeds which could choke out the beautiful plants that you want to be seen. A great relationship requires...
If you have been in your relationship for just a few months, or many years, and things have become difficult, and you are wondering whether it is time to end your relationship. There are some things you might like to consider before you do. Many people believe because...
There are many different perceptions of what makes or breaks a marriage. In the past, you may have held high hopes of what a marriage would be like, having been sold on the fairy-tale story, of happily ever after. As time goes on, you would know a great marriage takes...
Often, when a couple is having difficulty in their relationship, it is the emotional connection that falls away first, then the physical connection. If you haven’t had emotional or physical connection with your partner for a long period of time, it can be challenging...